I love it, of course - that's why I bought it. It's a Maggie Sottero and was called Ireland. It actually looks kind of Irish, or like what you might wear if you got married in Ireland. I always swore I wouldn't get married in a strapless dress and although I LOVED this dress, I did feel like it was falling down all night. Luckily it didn't. It was a pretty simple dress with beautiful crystal and an empire waist.
Now - it looks kinda easy to put on - but don't be fooled. There were like 100 buttons that had to be buttoned. And I was a bit demanding - making my bridesmaids help me put it on, then unbutton it all and tie the corset tighter, then after the ceremony I made them do it again. Hey - I didn't want a wardrobe malfunction on my wedding night!!
Please don't say anything about my fat hanging over the back of the dress. I was not compelled to work out much before my big day.
Here's what it looked like all put on:
Notice my bridesmaid STILL button the buttons....
As for my shoes - I decided to go with a non-traditional color of blue. I posted a pick of my wedding shoes on my other blog so I won't bore you with them too much. I loved them though and if I were more fashionable I would probably wear them more often.
And now for our rings. For pretty much my entire life I have not really understood the desire to buy real diamonds and gems. I've done just fine with fake stuff. My engagement ring, being bought in Honduras, is thin gold with cubic zirconia or something. To tell you the truth, no one notices. People compliment me on it all the time and talk about how much money my husband must have spent on it. Only I know the truth - and him. For our wedding rings I saw no point in spending thousands of dollars that we didn't have on a piece of metal to put on my finger (I know, I'm so romantic). Especially since I've lost my engagement ring three times and two of those times I never found it and it had to be replaced. So, going with my past follies, I knew it was a bad idea to invest so much money on something so easily lost. However, I actually love the rings we bought. It was a crazy night because we waited until the very last minute (a week before the wedding) to stop by Sears and search out the rings. I pretty much had to take the only ring they had in my size because we didn't have time to order one. Hubs actually found one he really liked and since his fingers are normal size (and not toothpicks like mine), his size was always available. But although it doesn't sound romantic, it feels as special as a ring with diamonds and white gold that we designed ourselves and ordered at Edward Arthur Jewelry.
No matter what the cost, a wedding ring is as special as they come. I loved everything I wore on my wedding day - I've never felt so beautiful and done up in my life.
Kattrina, you looked like a princess. I have been married several times (that sounds odd), and each time, it was more important for my ceremony to reflective my simple values and our personalities. I agree with your take on wedding jewellry. The meaning and commitment the rings represent make them beautiful. I favour silver and have never understood the hype around diamonds. I always told my husband that when I see an expensive watch or jewellry I think of the trips I could take with the money! So -- I travel as much as I can and I wear every piece of jewellry I own -- my bands, my mother's wedding bank and a small heart that my husband gave me, and on occasion my silver hooped earrings. I like it uncomplicated.
ReplyDeleteI love the shoes you picked! What a stunning bride you were. I bet you made your Daddy cry!
holy wowsers! that is a truly gorgeous dress and i love the shoes! and you know what i love even more? that you have perspective on the whole wedding/marriage thing and realize that the rings are symbolic and the cost is not indicative of your love for each other. not too many people have that kind of perspective - you rock!
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