I am so glad today is today and not yesterday. Yesterday was NOT a good day. I'm not going to go into many details but I can tell you one thing. At 8pm I was at the Apple Store at the mall because
someone's iPhone dropped and needed to be replaced. Not good. We have a lot of other things we could have spent $200 on. Oh well - the guy who helped me kept saying he was so surprised at how great of a mood I was in and how he doesn't normally deal with people who have such a good sense of humer about a broken iPhone. So, at least there's that.
Today is a big deal for me.
Today is the first day I'm not pumping at work since I returned to work after baby (December 2012). I have been pumping for over a year and a half. When I first returned to work I pumped four times (7:30am, 10:30am, 1:30pm, 4:30pm), then after Evan turned a year I went down to three times, then when he was 15 months I went down to two times, and then when he turned 18 months I went down to once. Now, it's 0. I'm still nursing him at night and stuff, but he's just not drinking any milk during the day with my sister so I just send it and she sends it back. Or he takes the smallest sip and then refuses anymore, so she has to throw it out. I feel like it's pointless to keep pumping for no reason. So, today I decided I wouldn't pump anymore at work. I have some milk in the freezer if need be, but won't be adding anymore. I'm kind of sad and nervous about the whole thing, but in reality, it will be fine. It does make me a bit nervous that he doesn't drink any milk all day, but hopefully it's not too big a deal. And maybe he gets enough at night.
And now, back to Vermont (where I wish I could go back to rather than sitting on this bus)!
Although we had a busy weekend with lots of fun activities, we also spent a lot of time just playing. Especially Evan. He loved having a big outside area to play and being able to play in the driveway and ride his little tractor (on loan from Cousin Lucas) wherever he wanted. At home he has to stay on the sidewalk, which to him, is very constrictive. He wants to ride all over the street, of course. Here, in Vermont, he can!!
Not sure why he's not smiling, but I promise he was having a great time! And notice his outfit - his pajama pants and a sweatshirt that was supposed to be for this winter...since I forgot appropriate clothes for the cooler weather.
Here he is zooming along. And he'd turn that stirring wheel like there was no tomorrow, although it didn't have any affect on the direction of the tractor.
My parents have a really long driveway so Evan had a blast riding his tractor up the hill and then coasting back down. Mishka (the dog) had a great time just sitting there. She's 10 years old and is developing some hip problems so doesn't run around like she used to. We love her to pieces though!
Up the hill my parents have a big field where they are taking care of some friend's cows. They are Low Line Australian Angus Cattle. Or something like that. I'm not a cow expert or anything.
Evan loved going to look at the cows (and the neighbor's horses). Cows attract a lot of flies though, so that was not fun. We didn't get too close. Plus, that is an electric fence, so we sure didn't want to risk getting a nice electric shock.
When we weren't outside playing around, we were inside playing around. Evan had so much fun with my mom (Mimi) and Dad (Papa). Mimi was so much more attentive than I am!
Complete and utter attention is the best way to a child's heart!!
Same with rocking cows.
He was a bit of a daredevil with this rocking cow - he'd rock so far back that I was afraid he'd tip over. He never did though, thank goodness. This cow is on loan from the neighbors.
Feeding the doggies treats was fun too.
Look at how well-behaved Mishka is! My parents have another dog too, Kuma, who is the same breed but bigger. He's a little more hyper, but still well-behaved. Mishka is the angel dog though - I've never met a sweeter dog.
Our big activity for Saturday was our bike ride!! This year we trekked our bikes all the way up to Vermont (I may have looked at the bikes a million times on the ride up because I was terrified that they were going to somehow fall off the car) so I was determined to ride them. My parents live close to a rail-to-trail path and I was excited to ride our bikes on that (
since you already saw the road - no way was I riding bikes on that road I went running on!). My aunt and uncle just moved to Vermont and their new house is right off the same trail - so we decided to ride to their house.
My mom didn't have a bike, so she drove to my aunt's house, but the rest of us biked there. It was SO FUN. I loved it!. Even if I had a Schwinn Jaguar Cruiser (6 speed bike) and Ivan had a very crappy Target mountain bike...and my Dad had a very nice Cannondale. He went faster than any of us. Evan was thrilled because he loves bike rides. And he fell asleep.
His head bobbed around like a little bobble head because of the big helmet he wore (the helmet fit, it is just kind of heavy when he's sleeping)! It was adorable. And that water bottle spilled all over him so he was soaking wet. He didn't seem to mind though.
The trail was nice and flat (my kind of bike ride) and beautiful.
Parts were shaded in the forest and others went through corn fields.
The weather was perfect though - not too hot or cold. And not windy, which is my worst weather condition. I was in the front for a while - leading the boys along.
But on the way back the boys left me in the dust.
I think it was because my bike was for "cruising" and not for actually riding. At least that's my excuse. And bike riding uses different muscles than running does...and the few muscles that are the same were tired from my 6 and 4 mile run that morning and the day before.
When we got to my aunt's we hung out for a while (and Ivan mowed their lawn because that's the kind of thing he does) and got to take a tour. It was beautiful! I am so happy they moved to VT and we can now see them every time we go up to visit my parents. We usually saw them anyway because they used to drive over from NH, but now it's even better. And my aunt had Pretzal M&Ms - she knows the way to my heart!
After our bike ride we headed to Ivan's favorite Chinese buffet. It's not really that great but it's all-you-can-eat for $5.25. So, you can't beat that price - especially when you eat as much as Ivan. We have to go at least once every time we go - sometimes we go two or three times. He's addicted.
When we got home, Evan wanted to try out my bike.
He has a few years before he'll be ready! I'm thinking of maybe getting him a
balance bike for his bday? Anyone ever buy one of those? Thoughts? Advice?
Ok - another long, long post! I'll finish up our last day Vermont recap tomorrow.
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Who else was sad when they stopped pumping? Anyone?
Chinese buffets - yay or nay??